British Mature Sex is like the manic pixie dream girl of online dating — frenetic, free, and you can’t believe it’s happening to you. When you’re together and it’s clicking, you’re on a total high. But when she goes, she leaves you so, so cold.
Here’s how to capture that magic, avoid its pitfalls, and create a system that works to meet women who are looking for real relationships on British Mature Sex. They’re out there!
1. Avoid mentions of a girl’s body.
2. Don’t overlook humor.
Who doesn’t like to laugh? When messaging a girl, show her that you don’t take life seriously all the time and include a joke occasionally. Here it’s key to be strategic about your audience and the kind of humor you use. For example, irony and hyperbole are easy to misunderstand in writing, especially if you’re communicating with a girl who hasn’t met you yet. She’s discovering your personality, too!
Let your sense of humor shine through, but don’t be afraid to add a “haha” or a winky face after you crack a joke so she gets where you’re coming from.
3. Don’t forget to ask her questions about herself.
Here’s an example of how a generic, dud guy handles a conversation, and how you can show her you’re worth talking to:
Girl: Oh, advertising’s interesting. Must require a lot of psychology.
Generic Guy: Yeah, I like my job. …Meet me for drinks tomorrow?
YOU: It does! I’m always learning, which is one of the perks. But what about you? What do you spend your days doing?
Girl: So you’re more into movies than books?
Generic Guy: Yeah, not enough time for both. Want to see Legend this weekend?
YOU: I watch more movies than I read books. What about you? You read much?
Girl: So where did you move from?
Generic Guy: London.
YOU: I came out from London for TV writing. What about you? Are you from Manchester?
By simply turning the conversation back to her and showing some curiosity, you’ll prove you’re worth meeting, while the generic guy will wonder what he’s missing.
4. Don’t send messages with grammar and spelling errors.
5. Don’t take forever to respond to a text.
6. Don’t forget tact.
Online dating is intimidating for everyone. Respectful communication is key when you’re first meeting and texting with someone new. Racial, political, or sexual statements tend to offend if you don’t know someone well…and a man who immediately references sex comes across like a sexual predator. Again: no thank you, sir!