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Lusty Undies to Stimulate You and Your Lover

 

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When sexy time approaches many of us find new ways to arouse our partner’s five senses. A combination of all the right fragrances and feels might take your sex to a whole new level, so let’s talk about how to visually stimulate your partner through lingerie! Whether shopping online or in a store, and with all that choice, you can end up feeling like you are rummaging through Lady Gaga’s closet. No need to worry, with knowledge of the types of fabrics and frills you’ll encounter, you’re sure to find exactly what you’re looking for.

Lace

A common fabric used in lots of lingerie. It’s made out of cotton or silk and is most known for its intricate open-holed patterning. Lace is often used in the simply to outline the outer edge of garments like camisoles and slips that can be worn under everyday clothing or even in the bedroom. Many designers utilise cotton lace to create all-lace underwear like panties, tights and bras. When deciding to go for lingerie that can be hidden under everyday wear, seamless lace garments are a popular find. One thing to note is although lace can be made of cotton, the fabric doesn’t absorb moisture the same way pure cotton underwear does so keep that in mind.

Leather

No need to fear this hot commodity! Leather and faux leather lingerie may be your newest sexy addition to the bedroom. Faux leather lingerie is commonly made with vinyl which is most often more affordable than genuine leather garments. Everything from corsets, to garters to chaps can be found in leather or faux leather. Another popular addition to the leather family is patent leather which tends to be found in a lot of shoes, and is characterised by its high glossy appearance. It’s important to note that not all leather pieces have to come with metal spikes and studs as seen on T.V. Leather is a classic staple in many lingerie stores and it’s important to try on any leather pieces that you intend to purchase. Leather lingerie should come with a lining and should fit you like a glove, and know that leather without a breathable liner can be uncomfortable and make you sweat!

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Silk/Satin

Can we say smooth? When deciding on silk or satin lingerie, comfort may be ruling your choice. Many love the smooth feeling of these fabrics on the body and may even incorporate it into other aspects of the bedroom like the sheets or pillows. The difference between the two is silk is known as the authentic hypoallergenic fabric made from silk worm cocoons where as satin is an artificial version most commonly made from polyester, lycra and nylon. Satin also tends to be more glossy than silk and is much less expensive. Many chemises, robes and gowns are made of this type of fabric and move much more freely than leather or lace. Silk adjusts to body temperature more easily than satin which can be less breathable.

Cotton

The fabric of our lives indeed! The body is very used to the effects of wearing cotton on the daily, so why not bring that into the bedroom where you should be the most comfortable!? Panties, bras, stockings, socks, boxers, tanks, camis, corsets, thongs, garters, bustiers, skirts–you name it and it can be found in cotton. If you like the feel and breathability of cotton undergarments, there’s nothing wrong with sticking to it. Envision all the different characters you can play while role playing…surely cotton is a key component to pulling some of those looks off!

In the end, you may choose to stick with what is most comfortable for you and your partner or decide to go completely out of your comfort zone…either can be equally as fun!

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There’s a Reason Your Date’s Food Always Looks Better Than Yours

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If you’re planning a dinner date this weekend, prepare to feel a specific emotion known as food envy. This may be the first time you’ve heard of it, but it’s a feeling we’re all familiar with. It’s the moment you look down at buffalo chicken salad and immediately regret your menu choice as your companion devours a juicy, rare steak—which, in my imagination, are always topped with those delicate crispy onions served at roadhouses.

While we’re all familiar with regretting our order the minute the waitress turns her back, a new poll of 2,200 people from OpenTable reveals just how gravely food envy impacts the dining experience. First, pretty much everybody experiences these incessant pangs of envy—nine of 10 diners, in fact. Of these angry diners, a third result in a heated argument, followed by the silent treatment.

Food envy hits hardest the moment the food arrives. Surprisingly, food envy impacts women more than men, 43 to 36 percent. While men are likely more emotionally driven by food, this result is probably attributed to the fact that women feel more pressure to order lighter items.

The most common emotions associated with food envy are disappointment (47 percent), regret (37 percent) and hunger (33 percent). How does one remedy it? Almost 40 percent say they’ll simply visit the restaurant another time while 30 percent beg their companion to share some of their meal. That, or they’ll steal from the dish anyway.

The main reasons for food envy are one’s indecision (41 percent) and willingness to experiment with new dishes and then regretting it (33 percent). To avoid these situations, 84 percent of respondents admit they take precautionary measures, with 46 percent previewing a restaurant’s menu beforehand, 34 percent glancing at what other are eating and 32 percent asking the restaurant’s staff for recommendations.

Food envy doesn’t only exist at restaurants, either. At least half of people who experience food envy also experienced the emotion when they saw food on TV (68 percent), on social media (50 percent) or while having a conversation (57 percent). How does one cure it? Easy. Order the burger you wanted in the first place.

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“WHAT MAKES TRULY MIND-BLOWING SEX?”

Here at Sex  REAL-SEXCONTACTS, we spend a lot of time answering listener questions and we love every minute of it! So this week, we wanted to do something different. We flipped the script and put out a question to all of you:

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We asked listeners, followers (from REAL-SEXCONTACTS.COM and REALBRITISHSEX.COM) and overall fans of us to think back to an amazing sexual encounter and tell us what made it so incredible.

We were were thoroughly impressed, aroused and inspired by all your responses. In fact, we received so much great feedback that we decided to tease it out a little bit.. Since we know how much some of you enjoy that..

So without further ado, the first installment:
5 tips for truly mind-blowing, knee-weakening sex for you, BY YOU!

1. Foreplay
No surprise there.. As real-sexcontacts always say, foreplay is a requirement, not a suggestion, and is a key ingredient to any sexual encounter. But for those who aren’t used to being treated to a full serving of delicious foreplay, it can really leave a long-lasting orgasmic impression! Kudos to those of you who knew to step it up, and truly enjoyed the outcome.

 

2. Romance
For many listeners, great sex is about more than just bodies doing what they’ve been biologically programmed to do.. It’s about the meaning underneath it. This is where romance becomes a major game-changer.

To take a night of ordinary sex and make it extraordinary, one must turn the sex itself into a thoroughly romantic experience. Don’t just toss sex out like an invitation to the movies. Woo your partner. Sweep them off of their feet. Make them feel loved. This is the time to bust out that sexy playlist you’ve been working on, turn down the lights and fire up some mood-setting candles. If you build the romantic atmosphere, they will come.. Again and again and again.

3. Multiple Orgasms
So yes, there were multiple mentions of multiple orgasms being a staple of mind-blowing sex.. Real shocker! Everyone wants to know that they are rocking their partner’s world, so it kind of goes without saying: the more orgasms, the better the sex.

Anyone can become a master of the O’s, with a fair amount of practice and the right mindset. It’s half physical (knowing the lay of the land, down below) and half mental (Are you relaxed? In the moment? Is your brain “turned on”?). Need a little extra guidance? This blog gives you the three steps to multiple O’s.

4. Sharing the Pleasure
According to several accounts, the delivering of orgasms garnered just as much excitement, if not more, than being on the receiving end. Several listeners revealed that truly mind-blowing sex came from experiencing their partner’s pleasure, and knowing that THEY were the ones who made their partner’s feel that good. It’s a proud moment, isn’t it?

Three tips to help you and your partner share the pleasure:

  • Leave the lights on (or at least light some candles)
  • Keep your eyes open.
  • Don’t hold back.

5. Time
You know what they say. The best things in life are worth waiting for and that includes multiple orgasms. Yep, they take time. Several respondents indicated that the best sex they ever had “lasted all night”.

Now “all night” is a bit of a stretch.. Who’s got that kind of time?